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My granddaughter is an empath. Now, I’ve met empaths before, and I really loved their “vibe” ― or their ability to surf the energies around them without being overwhelmed by the waves. They varied in maturity, but they were always aware of their energy sensitivities. At the most mature end, they seem to absorb the wave and either convert it to light or merely neutralize its tension.
On the other end, they seem to need to constantly readjust their perspectives ― which we all do, including the mature empaths, but these are more overt, appearing to be in constant search for themselves or validation. Less “solid,” like watching the changing shapes of clouds as the air stream carried them.
But empaths who are just starting out life need a different construct, or model, of the world. Since our brains construct what we consider reality, it makes sense to approach empaths from the ‘world-modeling’ perspective. Philip H. Farber in his book “Brain Magick: Exercises in Meta-Magick and Invocation”, describes world-modeling this way:
In general, most (if not all) of what we take for “the world” is a “user illusion,” a way that our brain interprets the world that allows us to experience clouds of probability (as physicists explain the nature of subatomic particles) as solid matter. We perceive the surface of our skin (however permeable and, ultimately, created of those clouds of probability and space) as the boundary between self and world. And we make numerous similarly illusory representations of everything we’ve ever seen, heard, felt, tasted, or smelled. Consider our experience of the world as a map or model that we create with our thoughts (and some help from the brain’s default network), based on the interpretation of our perception. Whether or not there is an objective reality to bump up against, all we can ever really do is experience our mind’s interpretation of bumping. And this model-making most certainly includes the delineation we make between ourselves and the rest of the world. What we consider to be internal and external may just be convenient distinctions that help us to maintain a sense of self and to navigate what we perceive of the world.
For practical purposes, we usually find that we need to take our internal representation as the world. So, for the time being, we can play within the usual rules and relate to our books or reading devices as solid objects, decide that we are something separate from the air we breathe, and treat as “unreal” only those things we recognize as figments of our imagination. Good with that?
This post is for her and her spirit-filled mom. I hope it is the beginning of world-modeling where they can both enjoy a world of the spaces between.
What is an empath?
An empath is an individual who is highly sensitive to the emotional and energetic states of others. They can intuitively feel and, in some cases, take on the emotions of people around them as if they were their own. This heightened level of empathy goes beyond the typical empathetic response that many people experience; empaths can absorb both positive and negative emotional energies from their environment, which can significantly impact their own emotional well-being.
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