I’ve always had a fascination with Druidic perspectives, even before I knew what a druid was. The way they saw their place in the world was how I lived growing up, communing with the trees and nature. One of their perspectives I learned was something called the ‘spaces between’ — thresholds between worlds, states of consciousness, or phases of life. These are powerful and transformative realms where intuition, insight, spiritual guidance, and healing can most freely flow.
Druidism’s deep connection with nature recognizes ‘the spaces between’ in different ways. In a forest, for instance, it’s not just the trees but the spaces between them that create the ecosystem. This reflects a balance between presence and absence, suggesting that both what exists and the space around it are essential for harmony and growth.
Just as in quantum physics, where the space between particles is fundamental to the nature of reality, in Druidism, these spaces can represent the potential, the unformed, and the yet-to-be. It’s in these gaps, doorways, and crossroads that possibilities exist and where the seeds of new realities can be nurtured.
In daily life, recognizing ‘the spaces between’ can happen when acknowledging the pauses in a conversation, the quiet moments between tasks, or even the transitions between different roles you play in life. These moments, often overlooked, can be rich with potential for reflection, growth, and mindfulness.
‘The spaces between’ invites a contemplation of the unseen, the transitions, thresholds, and the potential that exists in the gaps of our understanding and experience. It encourages a holistic view of life, where the empty spaces are just as meaningful as the filled ones.
Natural transition
My dog, Picasso, just passed away. I’m left with a soaking wet veil draped over my consciousness that feels like a thin membrane between grief and the continuance of life, whose moisture seeps through to the surface with the sudden impulses of emotion. It’s a filter through which I’m currently experiencing life. I know it’s part of the space between what was and what will be. It’s both transitional and permanent. Liminal.
I have removed all the physical triggers in the house, which leaves only the “behavioral” triggers: expectations and habits. I find myself thinking about him constantly in the spaces between mentally focusing on any task. Even while doing a task, I sense this veil of unfulfilled expectations, like a dampener on thought and motivation; on happiness and grief. Like the veil is the doorway into a ‘space between’ that contains pain I want to avoid … or do I?
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